wives on it….how do I get him out. Every one says serve him but he comes up with stupid excuses as to why this happened why that happened now he just bought a boat as I am about to lose my house in foreclosure (injury)I still work..2 jobs..soo question is…what would you do in my shoes? I want him out but he has no where to go..and even with what I have been thru I am not a heartless bch..so..anyone have a good idea on how to handle this?
edit not his site his "history" a site of other mens wives ….sorry ass Loser
NOO not gay its a porn site on his yahoo history that has other mens wives on it…naked!!!! its a bad bad site…I took him off my guest user on my computer tonight..
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I don’t think I could kick him into the streets..obviously, he has a problem and now that you know..you have to decide what to do next..I would suggest one of you moving into a separate bedroom or even the sofa..If you do have to move and you decide to end the relationship.I would give him a Notice…say, 30 days..Tell him in 30 days he has to make other living arrangements..Do it in writing…Make a copy and keep a copy for yourself..Good Luck…
OK its time to leave….I’ve caught him cheating,lying,and now he has on his site a porn site with other mens?
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leave him he doesnt deserve u
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Hi:
Kick him out.
Move back with your parents for a while until you land on your own feet again.
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you do admit they’re stupid excuses…so stop listening!
let him live in his boat sell the house & find a temporary place to live (family/friends?) see he has a place to stay & you don’t have to be a heartless b
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There are two basic reasons why men lie to their wives:
1. To hide something they are doing wrong. If he is cheating and messing you over, you need to know. It means he’ll keep doing his own thing, and he’ll just lie to cover it.
2. To hide who he really is. If he has wild sexual fantasies and uses porn as an outlet, he might lie because he’s afraid of your reaction. Nobody likes to be judged for the way they are sexually hard-wired, and if you over-react or criticize him, he’ll close up just like a child with an overly critical mother.
Nobody can judge this, but if it’s the second one, you might want to stop and ponder this – are you forcing him to hide who he really is because he fears your reaction? If so, you can change that – be willing to listen non-judgmentally. If it’s #1 – well, those boots were made for walking, right?
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Sounds like its time for you to take on another lover?
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oh yea time for u to go
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are you married? if so you need to file asap so he cannot combine you with more debt.
he turned gay then? wow! I would tell hime to help with the house payments if either of you want to have some where to live. If he refuses then figure out how to kick him out accourding to your local laws.
could help more if we knew if your married and in what state.
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Ouch. Sounds like you’re in a tied up situation…
While you’re working hard, he goes fooling around with other women and he’s not with the program…
I suppose I would find out an apartment somewhere else and give him from anywhere to 3 to 5 days to move out… However, I wouldn’t want to give him any financial aid… and depends on what you want to do with the boat…
After that, clear up your mind and move on with life… There’s better people out there.
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If I were in your shoes, I would’ve dumped him knowing he cheated on me. And he’s going for mens wives now? For sure thers better guys out there who are way way truely faithful. Its gonna be hard, but do you realy wanna deal with a guy like that for the rest of your life? I wouldn’t.
Good luck ):
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The porn doesn’t bother me. But the "cheating" does. If he had not been cheating, I would suggest you two have a long, hard talk. Secondly, there may be a side to him sexually that he hasn’t told you about. But if you read through the porn he watches/views, you can get an idea. And he likes it that way. If you have a good relationship with your in-laws, call them and ask if he can stay with them for a while. Otherwise, maybe you can rent a room out or something that may help.
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He’s got the boat. he can live at sea…..
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I don’t think I could kick him into the streets..obviously, he has a problem and now that you know..you have to decide what to do next..I would suggest one of you moving into a separate bedroom or even the sofa..If you do have to move and you decide to end the relationship.I would give him a Notice…say, 30 days..Tell him in 30 days he has to make other living arrangements..Do it in writing…Make a copy and keep a copy for yourself..Good Luck…
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Life as a Grandmother…
I guess you could ask a family law attorney how you could get him out of your house. that is what i would do.
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Put all his belongings on the street and change the locks. If he tries to enter the house call the police and get a restraining order. Get rid of this loser. You deserve better. Please get rid of him NOW!!
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He has no mother or father how about brothers or sisters i find it hard to believe a grown man hasn’t any where to go. I think you just want him to take some initiative and be a man not some immature school boy that got his hand caught in the cookie jar. You need someone you can lean on help get you through this very unfortunate time in your life. If you really want to get read of him play on the porn thing. Tell him that people like him make you sick to think you enjoy looking at stuff like that i don’t know you at all and quite frankly i don’t want to know you so please leave my house.
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